John Ryan Stonestreet

August 12, 2026

With profound sadness and hope in the resurrection, we share that John Ryan Stonestreet fell asleep in the Lord on August 12, 2026, at the age of 48.

John was born in Charleston, West Virginia, on February 27, 1978, to his devoted parents, Dana and Jana Stonestreet. He entered this world exuberant and emphatic – feet first, arms reaching overhead - two years to the moment after his sister Joanna’s birth.

From a young age, John befriended everyone he met, greeting all with his joyful and wide-open heart. He was curious about everything and inquisitive of everyone. John was always on the move, he was a doer.

When his family moved to NC in the fall of 1989, his passion for connecting with people served him well. John found new outlets for his energy with soccer, tennis, basketball, ping pong, skiing, snowboarding, youth group and Young Life involvement. In all his endeavors, he was fiercely competitive and equally empathetic.

John earned his degree in Communications and Rhetoric from UNC Chapel Hill, where he was an avid debater, a table tennis champion, a diehard Tar Heel and the nicest guy you would hope to run into on campus. During the summers, he volunteered in his community, participated in mission trips, and became Vector’s (Cutco) number one sales producer and team leader.

Following a variety of sales positions in Raleigh, John chose to follow his heart’s true desire to serve God and people. He pursued his theological training and Master’s degree at St. Vladimir’s Orthodox Seminary. It was at the seminary where he met his soon-to-be wife, Anastasia Bacalis, graduating and marrying in 2006.

John pioneered the role of Orthodox college ministry at his alma matter UNC, Duke, and NC State, serving students while also spreading awareness and fundraising for the ministry. Through his love and care for the students, John recognized the need to further his training in pastoral care, pursuing his hospital chaplaincy certification at Duke University. During his time serving at Duke University Hospital, John observed the great spiritual tensions and needs that modern end of life care presents, and he sought to better serve these needs by attaining his doctorate at Ohio University, graduating in 2014.

John was a loving, affectionate, doting and caring husband and father, finding great joy in spending time outdoors with Anastasia and his precious children Sofia, Ariadne, and Luke who are now 17, 14 and 11. While he would prefer biking them to the playground, John was always up for loudly cheering on the many impromptu singing and dancing performances of his little girls. He also shared with them his love for tennis and ping pong.

Later he would share his love of skiing and snowboarding with Luke, cherishing their time together in God’s creation.

His love for the Lord and care for his friends, family, and colleagues were evident in all he did. Long before becoming “Greek” through marriage to his beloved wife, as he liked to joke, he embodied the virtues of philotimo and philoxenia. John brought joy, fun, and laughter to every gathering, yet he was equally willing to sit with others in their pain and suffering.

John had a brilliant mind that never stopped brainstorming. He battled a lot and did so bravely. The family would like to thank all those who connected with and prayed for John in his own pain and suffering.

Matthew 11:28-29 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

We are deeply comforted knowing that John has found eternal rest for his soul in the arms of his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

John is survived by his wife Anastasia, children Sofia, Ariadne and Luke, his parents Dana and Jana Stonestreet, his sister Joanna who lives in Italy, his brother Daniel and nephew Micah of Asheville.

A Greek Orthodox service will be held at the Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Charlotte, NC, on Tuesday, August 25th, at 12:00 pm with visitation from 11:00 am-12:00 pm. Interment will be at the Evergreen Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of John may be made to the Saint Sophia School (A K-6 Orthodox School which his son Luke attends), 5108 Kuykendall Road, Charlotte, NC 28270, or the Saint Hermione Home, Inc., (A ministry that provides a safe and supportive home for homeless women to give birth), P.O. Box 79177, Charlotte, NC 28271. These personify John's dedication to education and helping those in need.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606.  Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Marcia and Rick Grant

    We are so very sorry for your loss. He sounds like a remarkable young man! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  • Niki Vastis

    Such devastating news! My thoughts and prayers are with Anastasia and the children. Sending you all my heartfelt sympathies! May John’s memory be eternal!

  • Fr. Mat Alexander

    May God have mercy! John was the first person I met when I moved in to seminary and we lived two doors down from each other the next three years. From that first visit to Target to all the subsequent ping pong and basketball games, we had some great discussions and laughs. Funny enough he accidently crashed my first date with my wife. He spoke for a youth conference for us some years after we graduated. I am heartbroken to hear of his passing. My condolences to all of you especially his family.

  • Laura Nixon

    Mark predictable August 18
    Although I haven’t seen John in so many years, he is still in my heart He poured his heart into lifting up the next generation, teaching us all how to love deeply and serve faithfully. May we carry his warmth, his joy, and his unshakeable faith forward in everything we do. Condolences to his family. May his memory be eternal!

  • Mariah Richardson

    Dana,

    My heart is with you and your family. Sending you love, peace, and strength in the days ahead.

  • Norma Carroll

    Thoughts and prayers.
    Norma

  • Morris and Nancy Fine

    To Dana, Jana, and the rest of the Stonestreet family and friends. Nancy and I were very sad to learn about John passing. His inspiring obituary makes clear the many people he helped and the wonderful life he lived. Wishes for peace and comfort to all. He lives on through his children and in all of your memories.

  • Kelly Harter Jorro

    John & I were friends in HS & at UNC. We shared many classes together at Reynolds, and at UNC, he & Ricky lived in Teague Hall at the same time that I lived there. I really enjoyed my friendship with John. He was an honest, fun guy - always a big smile & a lot of enthusiasm. We enjoyed friendly banter. :)

    I was heartbroken for his family to hear of his passing. Please know that you are being thought of by so many of his former classmates. I pray that you will feel John’s spirit with you always. Sending much love & comfort during this time.

  • Ken and Cathy Sepko

    While we only knew John as a young boy, we were saddened to learn that he had passed. No parent ever wants to lose a child. No wife or child ever wants to lose a husband / father.. Condolences to all of you.

  • Howard Sellinger

    Cynthia and I were heartbroken to learn of John’s passing and we extend our deepest sympathy. We will keep all of you in our prayers.

    Howard

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