Robert "Bobby" Ward Donaldson Jr.

July 20, 2026

Robert "Bobby" Ward Donaldson Jr., 80, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully on July 20, 2026.

Bobby was born on April 29, 1946, in Charlotte, North Carolina, and raised in Greensboro. He graduated from Page High School in 1964, attended UNC Chapel Hill, and went on to earn a Bachelor of Arts in Business from Guilford College and a Master's in Business from UNC Greensboro.

He served with honor in the United States Army from September 28, 1966, to July 1, 1969, spending a year in Vietnam before being stationed in Germany. A visit to Australia during R&R sparked a lifelong love of travel, and after his discharge, he returned there to live in Sydney, Australia for a year.

Bobby began his career at NationsBank in the construction development department. He later joined John Crosland Company, where he helped build their mortgage brokerage division and became a member of the National Home Builders Association. He went on to found J.V. Andrews Co. and Donaldson and Associates Home Builders, later joining Saussy Burbank as a home builder, and closed out his career as a mortgage broker.

Community was central to Bobby's life, and few causes meant more to him than Camp Thunderbird. He served on the board from 1988 to 1996 and as Chairman of the Board from 1994 to 1995, always advocating for what was best for the camp and its programs. He was passionate about summer water activities, environmental education, and the camp's international camper program, and Thunderbird Family Camp held a special place in the Donaldsons' hearts, creating memories the whole family cherished. He and his wife, Nancy, opened their home to foreign exchange students who attended the camp and sponsored campers for many years. Above all, Bobby believed deeply in the resident camp scholarship campaign and the doors it opens for young people who might not otherwise experience camp. He also spent countless hours coaching his daughters and their friends in basketball and soccer through elementary and middle school. The Donaldson home became a second home to many of his daughters' friends, who often said that Bobby and Nancy had a gift for making everyone feel loved and welcome.

Bobby cherished his friendships and remained loyally devoted to the people who had walked alongside him through every chapter of life — a devotion that meant more to him than ever in his final years. He was an avid boater, golfer and a lifelong UNC basketball fan, spending decades bringing his family to games at the Dean Dome. To his seven grandchildren, he was simply "Babo," and nothing brought him more joy than being with them or receiving their calls and photos.

He is survived by his wife of 48 years, Nancy Holland Donaldson; his three daughters, Margaret Crane and her husband Joe, Nancy Gauss and her husband RD, and Sarah Eargle and her husband Austin; and his seven grandchildren, Barbara and JB Crane, Mack and Bruce Gauss, and Whitner, Harris, and Sadie Eargle. He is also survived by his sister, Susan Ross, and her husband Tom Ross; his brother, Jimmy Donaldson; and his brothers-in-law, Don Holland and Johnny Holland and his wife Susan, along with their families.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Margaret Norman Donaldson and Robert Ward Donaldson, and his sister-in-law, Anita Talley Holland.

A private family service celebrating Bobby's life will be held on Monday, July 27. The family will receive friends and loved ones at a reception from 1:30 pm - 3:00 pm in Oxford Hall at Myers Park Presbyterian Church, 2501 Oxford Pl, Charlotte, NC 28207. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to The Camp Thunderbird Scholarship Campaign or Atrium Health Sanger Heart & Vascular Institute.

Arrangements are entrusted to Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204, (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Brian Crane

    Margaret and family I am so sorry for your loss your dad was so nice each time I saw him a very kind and giving man.

  • David Cunningham

    Nancy and the Bobby Donaldson Family,
    I’m so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing this past week. I knew Bobby as a fellow mortgage banker and through his time in the home building industry. Bobby had a huge heart and was a very caring brother in Christ! Nancy I use to see Bobby at the MPPC Wellness Center and in our many conversations he was always giving me an update on you and the family. He was so proud of you, his children and grandchildren. Thank you so much for all Bobby did for the greater Charlotte community, Camp Thunderbird, MPPC and of course your family. He will certainly be missed and know he is now with his Father God!
    Blessings and Love,
    David W Cunningham

  • Jim Donaldson

    Such a wonderful Husband, Father, Grandfather, and Community Leader! He will be missed by many!

  • Terry Etheridge

    Bobby was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. I worked with him during his John Crosland/Centex time. He built my home, solid, well built, and comfortable. I will be here for the rest of my life. I thank Bobby everyday for my beautiful home!

  • Andy and Florence Kane

    Dear Nancy, Margaret, Nancy and Sarah,
    We were saddened to hear about the passing of our dear friend Bobby. He was a true champion for Camp Thunderbird and he made great contributions towards the improvement of camp. Bobby cared deeply about making a camp experience possible for underserved children in our community and he generously contributed his time and money to this Camp Thunderbird program.
    Bobby was also an early supporter of the Environmental Education program at Thunderbird that has served hundreds of thousands of students over the last 40 years.
    Bobby always lifted our spirits by his positive attitude and service mentality.
    He will be deeply missed.
    Kind regards,
    Andy and Florence Kane

  • Thomasena Washington

    I enjoyed knowing Bobby and fondly remember that huge smile he shared with everyone throughout the time we worked together. Sending my heartfelt condolences to the family.

  • Sandra Jones

    My condolences to the family of this wonderful gentleman. I was in high school with Bobby. He was always so positive and easy going.

  • Augustina and Jim Rosenbaum

    Dear Nancy Jim and I were so sad to hear of Bobby’s passing. Jim always liked him and said that he was a great man. He always had a smile on his face when I saw him and you all have raised beautiful children and now you have great beautiful grandchildren losing a husband is never easy as you know I lost my husband when Corbin was a sophomore that country guy I hope you know how much we love your family always the best family always doing good things for others sincerely, augustina and Jim

  • Dan Almers

    So sorry to hear about Bobby's passing. Worked with him at Saussy Burbank. He was a great friend and colleague . Thoughts and prayers to the family.

  • Peter Thevaos

    Nancy, daughters and extended families, I a so sorry for you loss of Bobby. I was very fond of Bobby and Nancy and I have known Bobby since the early 70's. May his memory be eternal and praying a long, healthy and prosperous life to all of Bobby's loved one left behind.
    Peter

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