Betty Brockett Benton

June 3, 2026

Betty Brockett Benton, 86, passed away peacefully on June 3, 2026, in Charlotte, North Carolina, surrounded by the love of her family and the memories of a life beautifully lived.

Born on October 28, 1939, in Bainbridge, Georgia, Betty was the daughter of the late William James ('Willie Jim') Brockett and Lillie Mel Brockett. Raised in the South she loved so dearly, Betty embodied the grace, strength, and wit that would define her throughout her life.

She is survived by her daughter, Blair Benton Mason (Ernie) of Sarasota, Florida; her son, John Brockett Benton (Lee) of Charleston, South Carolina; her beloved grandchildren, Madison Bledsoe (Scott) of Nashville, Tennessee, Benton Mason of Charlotte, North Carolina, and Sophie and Carson Benton of Charleston, South Carolina; and her treasured great-granddaughter, Eloise Blair Bledsoe of Nashville, Tennessee.

Betty was preceded in death by her parents; her brother, William James ('Jimmy') Brockett Jr.; her beloved sister-in-law and lifelong friend, Ann Brockett; and her former husband, Edward Arnold Benton.

A lifelong learner, Betty's love of knowledge and education led her to a career in teaching. An avid reader and thoughtful writer, she found joy in books, learning, and the written word. Her journals captured a lifetime of observations and reflections, and her handwritten notes became treasured keepsakes for family and friends.

Known to her grandchildren as 'Nana,' she was fiercely independent, spirited, and full of determination. A true spitfire, Betty approached life on her own terms, with a sharp mind, strong opinions, and a resilience that inspired those around her. While her independence was legendary, so too was her devotion to family and friends.

Betty's greatest joy was spending time with the people she loved. She was happiest gathered with family at St. Teresa Beach, enjoying a lively game of bridge with friends, sharing conversations at book club, or cheering on her beloved Georgia Bulldogs.

A true Southern belle in every sense of the word, Betty will be remembered for her elegance, intelligence, independence, and beauty. Though she will be deeply missed, her influence and love will continue to live on in the many lives she touched.

A private celebration of Betty's life will be held by her family this summer on Little Gasparilla Island, Florida, a place filled with the beauty, peace, and cherished family memories she loved so dearly.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Anne Broadbridge

    Betty was always my favorite cousin. Staying with your family in Atlanta/Panama City Beach and a couple of years later for a week in Charlotte were two of my most special memories of my preteen/teenage years. She never missed calling and sending cards to my Mom (her Aunt Lorraine) on her birthday in September; my Mom would do the same for Betty every October by calling and sending cards on her birthday. After Mom passed, I carried on the tradition and looked forward each to talking with your Mom on her birthday. She was such a loving, sweet woman. Love to all of you - I know that you will miss her dearly.

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  • Tom Moore

    I knew Betty for a long, long time. We were neighbours on Norton Road for many years. She was always a lady in dress, demeanour, and action. I am so sorry to learn of the loss of this southern gentlewoman!

    My deepest sympathy to Blair and John.

    May she rest in peace!

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  • Kaye Howerton

    I met Betty through one of my best friends Ann
    Brockett. When Betty would visit Ann.
    I sometimes would visit and I loved our conversations. Wish I had the opportunity to spend more time with such a lady. I know she’ll be missed. My condolences go out to all the family..
    Kaye Howerton

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  • Carole Gray Moore

    John, Blair, and families: Your mother was a lovely person and a great friend to me for many years. We were always there for each other, through good times and bad times. I cherish and value every second of those happy days, and will hold them dear in my heart always. As you mourn Betty's loss, please know that I and her many other friends mourn with you, and we will never forget her presence in our lives.

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