Scott Samuel Murray

January 4, 2026

Scott Samuel Murray, 62, passed away peacefully at his home in Charlotte, North Carolina, on January 4, 2026. Born in Asheville, North Carolina, Scott will return to his birthplace be laid to rest alongside his beloved father, Cecil Murray, who preceded him in death.

Scott was a proud graduate of Enka High School, where he played football and trumpet in the marching band—early signs of the teamwork, dedication, and rhythm he carried throughout his life. He went on to earn a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science from Appalachian State University in 1986, launching a successful career in technology that brought him to Charlotte. Scott spent decades making an impact at IBM, Bank of America, and Ally Bank, where he was known not only for his technical expertise but for leading with humor, kindness, and heart.

A lifelong learner, Scott returned to Appalachian State University later in life and earned a Master’s degree in Media, Technology, and Learning Design in 2025. He was deeply excited about using this degree to mentor younger generations—encouraging them to think creatively, lead boldly, and build with purpose.

Scott lived fully and joyfully. He was an avid sports fan and arts enthusiast who loved cheering on the Carolina Panthers, singing along to alternative rock bands at the Music Factory, training for charity runs, and watching comedy movies—often quoting them line by line—with his daughters. Time spent with family and friends was his greatest joy, and wherever Scott was, laughter was sure to follow. If he was in the room, you could always expect to get some laughs.

Scott is survived by his daughters, Grace Elise Murray and Julia Dare Murray; his mother, Nancy Chandler Murray; his sister, Gloria Murray Cobb; his nephews, Matthew and Sam Cobb; and his loving friend, Frances Walley.

A funeral service and celebration of Scott’s life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, January 9, 2026, with visitation beginning at 10:00 a.m., at Belk Chapel, Queens University of Charlotte (2287 Radcliffe Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28274). Burial will be held at Green Hills Cemetery, 25 New Leicester Highway, Asheville, NC 28806 at 3:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made in Scott’s honor to the Shepherd Center Foundation in Atlanta, Georgia, supporting families like Scott’s and inspiring lives rooted in hope, resilience, and possibility.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28204 (704) 641-7606. Online condolences can be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Tracy Johnson

    Prayers of comfort for the Murray family during this time. I went to school with Scott and was very sad to have read of his passing.

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  • Stacy Marx

    We used to go gym rehab together for few years. He inspired me by his wisdom of joyful and loving self.. he will be missed. His soul did gave everyone’s light to have his stronger philosophy of life by his challenge. May you in peaceful and loving. You will never forget who you are……
    Stacy

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  • Connie McClure Jiannine

    Nancy, Gloria, and family— I am so sorry to hear of Scott’s passing. Your entire family was so kind and sweet as we were growing up. You will be thought of in the coming days & remembered fondly.

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  • Brooks Harrell

    Gloria,

    I did not know your brother, but he sure sounds like a really neat person. I know this a deep loss for you and your family. Words escape me, but I just want to express my sympathy , and just to know that the Lord is always present for you and your family to lean on for His comfort, peace, and assurance . Brooks

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  • Francis Masterbone

    I was deeply sadden to hear of Scott’s passing. I worked with Scott while I was at IBM and at BofA. Scott and I always had fun. His humor was infectious and always a joy to be around. My deepest condolences to his Mom, daughters and his family and friends. Rest in Peace my friend.

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  • Tim Tyler

    Scott was a neighbor and friend. His sense of humor, positive outlook and optimism were always an inspiration. He always made me smile when we talked. I will miss him; he was a blessing to have as a friend.

    He was always surrounded by people that cared about him and was always strong, learning to drive again and going back to school. He never complained.

    My prayers and thoughts are with Julia, Grace, Frances and his family.

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  • Steve Farmer

    So sorry to hear this,
    Scott and I went to High School together and roomed together our 1st year in College at Mars Hill.
    Great person, fond memories!
    Prayers to the family

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  • Rachael Hall

    Scott was a great guy. I met him in 2021 on a project at Ally. We became fast friends. He was always so calm, funny and eager to push through and make positive change. He was a great collaborator. I am deeply sorry for your loss. May Scott's memory live-on. RIP buddy.

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  • Carol Tyndall

    Gloria, I am so sorry for your loss. Parts to you.

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