Shirley Flowe Newcombe

July 25, 2025

GASTONIA - Shirley Flowe Newcombe, 87, of Gastonia, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on July 25, 2025 surrounded by family. Born in Charlotte to Margaret and Edgar Flowe, Shirley lived a life defined by devotion to raising her four children, a passion for tennis, and creating cherished family memories at the beach.

She is survived by her sons Elliott Newcombe (Tami) and David Newcombe (Rusty); daughter Shelley Rutledge (Edward); 4 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren and her brother, Eddie Flowe. Shirley was predeceased by her daughter, Elizabeth Newcombe.

Shirley was a vibrant presence in Charlotte’s tennis community, serving as captain of the Women’s Tennis C Team at the Charlotte Country Club for over 20 years. Her leadership, competitive spirit, and camaraderie on the court inspired teammates and friends alike. She found great joy in the game, forging bonds that lasted throughout her life. She was active in the Junior League of Charlotte, the Mint Museum, the Charlotte Debutante Club, the Nine O’Clocks, the Benedicts, and the Charlotte Country Club.

Shirley’s family would like to thank staffs of VIA Health Partners (Hospice) and Visiting Angels for their care and compassion. The family will hold a private burial at Evergreen Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Shirley’s memory can be made to the American Cancer Society.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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  • Harriet Carter

    David, my sincerest condolences to you and the family! I really enjoyed the conversations & time with Shirley during my visit with you all in May.

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  • Joseph Cascio

    Shirley, you were always kind to me every time I was around you. I can tell that you were a very good mom because your son David is as kind as you were. I hope you’re having a cold beer with your family up in the great beyond.

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  • Mary Duke Barnwell

    My fondest memory of Aunt Shirley was her love for tennis, and that fabulous mercedes two seater convertible she drove. I always loved spending the holidays at her and Uncle Elliotts home is Charlotte.

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  • Andrew David Maske

    My beautiful Grandmother. Thank you for always being there for me. Thank you for always wanting to talk to me. I thank God that I was able to be there for you. I will carry you in my heart always.

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  • Pamela Payne

    The fun memories of "Big Mama" will forever bring me a smile.

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